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Thursday, July 18, 2013

When did my baby start eating solid food?

My baby's Pediatrician said that my baby should start eating solid food when he turned 6 months old. He was supposed to eat solid food on the 3rd to 5th month but because he has allergies. He needs to only drink milk until 6 months, no vitamins, no other food only milk!

Last week he had just turned 6 months old and I was very excited to prepare the food that he needed to eat and because he has allergies, I have been very careful on choosing the food that he could only eat. Since, his doctor said that his allergies hopefully should minimized when he turns one year old. So, by then the allergies might still come out. One very important tool in feeding that I remember was to use a small soft spoon, since he didn't have teeth yet and his gums were still very sensitive.

What was the food that I prepared?
I didn't buy instant cereals because they are sweet and it will introduce sweets on my baby's taste glands and may make him to be choosy about the food that he is going to eat. I think of introducing food that has a natural taste without even adding sugar or salt on it. So, what I did, I bought an organic rice in the department store and have it grounded somewhere in the market. I made porridge from the grounded organic rice. I also boiled carrots, mashed it then mix it together with the porridge without adding salt or sugar. Since, it has been my baby's first feeding moment, with the first spoon of the food, he seemed not like it but he was also very excited to eat, then he opened his mouth and ate the food. I prepare my baby's food out of a natural fruits, vegetables and organic rice. Please see below some of the recipes I do for my little one.

Organic Rice with banana.
I used the scoop of  my baby milk in measuring the amount of organic rice for the porridge. On his first week I only put 1 scoop of organic rice and half glass of water for the three meals. Then I mashed the banana just enough for one meal and put the remaining in a container then put it inside the refrigerator. I get an amount of the porridge just enough for one meal and mixed it together with the mashed banana. Then my baby really liked it. 

Saturday, June 22, 2013

A mother's love

A relative of our friend whose premature baby is in a coma. They are not a close friend of mine but it seems that my heart crumpled and I feel like a mother to the baby. I found out that, it seems I have empathized the feeling of the mother watching her  child sick and helpless and can't even touch or hug him. How painful could it be! I then started bringing back the memories of my brother who passed away because of gun shot and tried to figure out, how was my mothers feeling at that moment? I realized it was really different from what we felt. As I imagined it and somehow have emphasized the pain, huh...it was really hard and only when we become a parent or mother we'll realize that it's not easy as what we think it was. A mother's love is incomparable and very difficult to dig in. Only when we become mother we'll understand that why of so many failures or sins we have done against them they can still love us? That is because a mother's love is immeasurable. In connection with all these realizations, I remember a phrase in a bible, I just can't remember the verse and the exact word but it says something like " when we listen to our mother, the Lord will bless us and we will have an abundant life and if we obey our father the Lord will forgive some of our sins because they were given high authority by the Lord". I'm just trying to figure out, maybe when we become parents-God will bless us with a superpower to love and to endure pain thus to be able to bring up a good child.