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Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Halloween Costumes

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1.Halloween is one of the event kids looked up too and parents too. It is  fun to celebrate it with treat or trick with their lovely costumes. Animal costumes,mini me, super hero or dress them with their favorite movie or tv characters order Halloween Costumes now: 



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My son learns ABC at 19 months

I was amazed at 19months my son can now recognize and speak almost of the letters ABC.

How did I introduced ABC to my son:
1. At  10 months old, I post the letter cards on the wall at our bedroom.
2. Sing ABC as a lullaby. I used to cuddle him to fall asleep during those times, I sing ABC song as a lullaby. 
3. At A year Old, i used to make fun of the letters on the wall pointing into every letter and the pictures of each letter. Saying or singing like this A is for apple, B is for Ball... I make it as part of his playtime most of the time.
4. Tune in to youtube, there are alot of fun ABC songs in youtube that my son really loves to listen and watch.
5. Buy books with ABC and other figures. Just read it with him and make fun on the sounds with my facial expressions just to cath his attention. I just simply say this is "Letter A, it says A like Apple".
6.  Play ask and point. Ask where is the letter? At an early stage where my son can't really speak yet, I just asked him where is the letter...? and he points it.
7.Play ask and speak out? Ask what is this? At a year and 6 months old he is already learning how to speak. I started playing "What is this?, pointing or bringing the letter to his attention." He can't really speak yet then I answer. Until time comes that he can speak it.

Doing all this, I was amazed that he can speak and recognized letters, in the books, in my shirts even in prints on the wall when we go the mall or anywhere. At less than year old they may not be able to get it right away but they do listen. I have noticed that babies are really a good listener with constant introduction, playing and making fun of the abc song you will be surprised that time will come that they can speak and reconized ABC. Have fun with ABC!
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Sunday, September 14, 2014

How I deal with postpartum stress

Since my husband is an overseas worker and I worked online, where I do go out seldomly and meet with people rarely I thought of these a  reason why am i being vulnerable of postpartum that i never thought I'd be. I felt doing things on my own most of the time and when my son is already a year and  6 months old, I finally started to assess myself and realized through reseach that I might have slight postpartum stress and if I am not willing to deal and overcome it, my health might get affected.

How did I deal with it:

1. You should be able to assess yourself that it is not you who get easily angry.
You should be able to assess your behaviour before you got pregnant and after pregnancy. I was a happy and possitive person before I got pregnant. I don't easily hold grudges or anger. After giving birth my sisters kept telling me that I easily get irritated and easy to get angry. I ignored it, untill I found out and accepted that trully I have changed and I don't want to be drowned by resentment, anger and negative emotions.

I have searched in the internet and notice that I may be struck by postpartum stress. I was willing to change and wanted to release stress.

2. I take exercise. I do sumba dance or jog even my son goes around with me. It was fun to do it with him.
3. Take a lot of prayer. I do pray after exercising or when walking up in the morning and before sleeping at night. The first few days was really difficult but when I contunue doing my prayer session I've noticed that I don't easily get angry anymore nor think of bad things people do to me or even think of negative.

My prayer:

Lord, I don't want this feeling: resentment, anger, negative thoughts,unforgiveness.
I am having hard time dealing with it and please forgive me of keeping these feelings, 
allowing it overcome my thoughts, just can't stop it.
You said that ask at it shall be given unto you.
I bow down before you today, to please send Your Holy Spirit, 
wash me from my sin...cleanse me whiter than the snow,
I asked by the power of the blood of Jesus, that your blood flows through my brain where it cleanses the part where I always remember bad things that people do to me small or big. Please let me forget it, and give me the grace to forgive. Please cleanse my brain that I can remember good things that people do to me small or big and  I can always remember fun memories. I don't want to be separated from you Lord. You are my saviour and magnificient God and I believe that you will heal me and you will continue to bless me. I asked this in the Mighty name of Jesus! Amen and Amen..

These steps really worked for me.. and i think I don't need to see a doctor.